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Really exciting news about your potential move; I'm inclined to think it would be a good thing for you to leave your current home after all the weirdos who keep showing up! :)



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is hersey tearing up the cover?? BAD DOG!!

building a new house sounds like a great plan, you will be able to construct it just the way you want it. And bother the contracters to hell (wich is the only good way, otherwise they will start to put in their own ideas, wich are useless 90% of the time).

i don t know how the housemarket is in the US at the moment, here in holland it sucks. On the other hand, my sister in law and her boyfriend sold their house within a week! Pretty awesome, but it proves that if you put some effort in it, it is doable..

I am ever so glad we do not have to hunt for a new house, or have to sell this one.. All my efforts and inspiration go to the swedish house, and the fun part is, i will do a 60% different style of furnishing there then i do here... I will go for 4 weeks this summer (hubby arrives one week later then me and the kids) IT is an excessive holiday, but the jobmarket is flat in the holidayseason, and i can apply from sweden also, thanks to the internet. WE will go hunt for some typical swedish furniture and tableware... i am really looking forward to it, good thing is. My mum is coming along too (with her camper) so we can go shop together, and leave hubby and the kids at a lakeside somewhere to fish and swim. Mum won t be with us all the time, she has her camper, and 1 week of weaving planned anyway. I hope when i am 79 , like she is, i will still be able to drive a 6 meter long vehicle without any effort or anxiety. She also offered us her camper for a couple of days, so we can visit our friends at the farm. She will gladly housesit and ponder around in the garden.

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Yes, Jo, that is Hershey tearing up the solar cover for the pool. He is a BRAT! His poppa spoils him rotten and scolds me when I discipline him. We shouldn't have just laughed at Hershey ripping up the cover (it was shot after 4 years of use) because now he might think it's OK to rip up the new one.

You have a sweet life! You have a vacation house and you get to ride horses. Lucky!!

The housing market in Michigan is horrible. That's why we can now afford to buy a water-front property; people are really having to take huge losses even for water-front properties. Trouble is I can't find one I love enough to purchase it. I still haven't found a lot (that is reasonably priced) to build on. There are some nice river lots with really crappy houses on them for cheap but I don't know what it costs to tear down a house and fill in the foundation to rebuild. The good thing is that water, sewer and service lines would already be in place. I know how much it costs to have those things hooked up to a piece of property (a lot!).

We built our last house and it was hugely stressful. I acted as the general contractor and had to deal with the sub-contractors. Some of them were no trouble but the guy that built my staircase took forever to show up to do that. I boarded my horse with him and didn't feel like I could nag him about when he was going to show up. He did do a fantastic job when he finally showed up but time is a lot of money when you are paying on a construction loan.

The excavator we hired dug the pond a good three hundred yards farther out than I told him to. That should have been my first clue. When he dug the basement it was 8 feet off but the brick mason I had hired made him fix it. I didn't even find out about that until we closed on the house and my loan officer told me about it.

I should have figured out that the basement might have been off because when I would go out to the site I would find tons of beer cans out there. Who does that?!! Christ, they couldn't even bother to pick up the cans!

That guy was a complete nightmare. He wouldn't return my calls and when I would get a hold of him he was snotty with me. One time he said "What do you want? A driveway OR a septic field?" I said "I am paying you for both! I expect to have both jobs done and they should have been finished months ago!" I wanted to fire him that day but Keith's father talked me out of it.

In the end I had to hire someone else to finish the job as this guy skipped town (he's probably still hiding in Mexico). He had been bugging me for more money and I told him he wasn't getting another cent until some work was done. My loan officer later told me that when he skipped town he left with close to 30 grand from another person that had hired him. So there are at least two people around here that would still love to get their hands on him! I used to think of ways to torture him and then I was going to bury him in the septic tank he screwed up so badly!

The guy I hired to put the gutters on the house also had a great work ethic. I was working at the jail that day and we finished work early. I got home at noon and he and his co-workers were already completely drunk! I guess they figured it was a Saturday so they had a right to drink on the job.

I wasn't happy with the guy that remodeled one bathroom here and the person I hired to refinish the floors (came highly recommended!) pissed me off too. Neither of them finished the jobs like they said they would.

So, my thing with contractors is being able to trust them at all. The only stellar contractors I ever had was the guy that installed the pool and the people he referred to me to install the fencing and do the cement work.

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I have to hire a few people to do some work on this house and you better believe that I am going to ask for a lot of references!

I am doing a face-lift on the kitchen. The woman I bought this house from remodeled the kitchen right before I bought it. She didn't do a cheap job but her choices were not practical. She put a rustic type tile on the counter-tops. It's pretty but it's a nightmare to work on and even worse to clean. It takes me a good 30 minutes to scrub the island and clean the damn grout. I am later on this week to look for either a granite or quartz stone for the island. Couldn't pick that out on-line.

I did purchase everything else I needed for the kitchen on-line. The stores have great sales on appliances on holiday weekends. It took me 9 hours to choose new stainless steel appliances! I had to choose ones that would fit into the spaces here so that limited me a bit. Splurged just a little and ordered a convection oven. I do so much baking nowadays. LOL.

The kitchen cupboards have an antique cream finish on them that has worn horribly. I can see bare wood in some spots. I want to have them painted white but I can't find anyone to do the job. They need to be professionally sprayed.

Bought gorgeous new hardware for the cupboards (OK, that was another splurge!) and a gorgeous new kitchen faucet. The hardware in the kitchen is a very frou frou style in a gold tone that doesn't suit me. The faucet is also in a gold tone and the light over the island is very fussy looking and it's in an antique bronze finish. Also a pain in the ass to clean. The kitchen doesn't get a lot of natural light and that's why I wanted to go with stainless steel appliances, white cupboards and polished chrome fixtures. I want a look that is less fussy, cleaner and more modern looking but still timeless.

I really had to restrain myself with the light fixture for the kitchen island. I fell in love with this one Image but Keith would have killed me because it was pretty expensive. I finally compromised on this one pendant version of the same fixture because I couldn't find anything I liked nearly as much. Image

I enjoyed telling Keith how much money I saved him this weekend! He's wise to me now after all these years and he just says "If you 'saved' that much how much did you spend?"

So the kitchen is mostly sorted out. I have to choose wood flooring for the family room and I decided to replace the flooring in the kitchen as well since it opens up to the family room. The floor in the kitchen is maple but the flooring in the rest of the house is oak. I think it would be best to be consistent with the flooring as it will make things flow better and make the rooms look larger. Oak would be my last choice but it would cost me a bloody fortune to replace all of the flooring in the house. Plus I paid 4 grand to have those floors refinished a few years ago.

The last project I want to complete this summer is remodeling the other bath. I haven't chosen anything but the faucet for that space. I am very fussy (can you tell?) and I spend enormous amounts of time choosing things. Also need to repaint the kitchen and family room and choosing paint colors will take me forever.

I can go on and on about real estate and home decor; they are both passions for me. I can almost talk about them as much as I talk about dogs and horses.

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How fun that you get to furnish your vacation home! I love the Swedish style of decorating. It's so light but colorful and sunny. Good luck on your hunt for furniture and dinnerware. Do they have decent estate sales and antique markets in Sweden? Is your home on a lake there?

I think your mother sounds awesome! Good for her that she is so active. I would not be able to drive a huge camper at any age. I could never back up a truck with a horse trailer attached and I can't even back up my lawn tractor with anything attached to it. I just don't get the concept of having to steer the opposite way.

I wish that my mother was still able to lead a fruitful life but she's been in a nursing home since she had her leg amputated. She is never going to get out of there. She loses more and more of her functions and abilities as time passes.

She phoned me today (a rare thing in itself) and she was actually with the program and making sense. That was the first time in a very long time where she was able to converse like that. At the end of the conversation she said "I love you" and that was the first and only time she has ever said that to me. I have said that to her but she has never said it back.

Ack. I have to go and clean the pool now.

  

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rustic type tile on the counter-tops.

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i fancy a more modern type of style.. Our kitchen in the dutch house is fine, glossy cream doors, and a darkred granite countertop.. Easy to clean, but i would have prefered a black one..

In sweden it is an ikea kitchen with a countrylike style, but not too much. I like it.

They have auctions there and a lot of places sell 'loppis' wich can vary from good quality stuff to absolute junk... In former holidays i was never alowed NEAR those places, but now i got a free passage lol.

Our dutch home is very dutch and danish design.. Our swedish one will have a mix of design and swedish countrystyle. I ve painted one wall very dark blue, and the idea is now to start collecting delfts blue plates to hang on the wall. (other blue ones will fit in nicely too ) But first i have to finish the staircase.. i have ripped off the carpet, got rid of the glue, and now i am sanding it, cause it is badly damaged... Then i can start paining (the good part of the whole job). The result will be fab, but i had the sanding part...


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that must have been a very special phonecall from your mum. Nursing homes are not the best places to keep all your marbles in place, from my experience.

Seeing jeroens mum slowly fade away in the mental hospital is a hard thing. The hardest part is that sometimes she realises that she is psyco and she wants to leave there right away, and accuses us of locking her up (which is true) I do hope i never get in that state...

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I agree maybe it is time to move..maybe you should try the CIty

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rustic type tile on the counter-tops.

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i fancy a more modern type of style.. Our kitchen in the dutch house is fine, glossy cream doors, and a darkred granite countertop.. Easy to clean, but i would have prefered a black one..

In sweden it is an ikea kitchen with a countrylike style, but not too much. I like it.

They have auctions there and a lot of places sell 'loppis' wich can vary from good quality stuff to absolute junk... In former holidays i was never alowed NEAR those places, but now i got a free passage lol.

Our dutch home is very dutch and danish design.. Our swedish one will have a mix of design and swedish countrystyle. I ve painted one wall very dark blue, and the idea is now to start collecting delfts blue plates to hang on the wall. (other blue ones will fit in nicely too ) But first i have to finish the staircase.. i have ripped off the carpet, got rid of the glue, and now i am sanding it, cause it is badly damaged... Then i can start paining (the good part of the whole job). The result will be fab, but i had the sanding part...



I saw from Facebook that you have finished the stairs. Good for you and I know what a job that can be (though I did not have to scrape off rubber!). My staircase in my last house was installed for a ton of money (I believe that staircases are the most difficult things to build; too much geometry) but I had to finish it myself. Spent one entire summer sanding, staining, sanding, and coating it with polyurethane. Plus I also had to paint the risers. I sanded in between each coat of stain, poly and paint (must have sanded that entire thing about 50 or 60 times) but when I was finished the cherry railing was smoother than a baby's bottom.

I really could never put as much effort into another house as I did with that one. That house was my dream house (at the time; I would change some things now) and I loved it dearly. I think I miss the huge front porch more than anything else. I could seat 60 people on that porch for a party. And I had a porch swing on each end of the porch. Those swings were a great place to kick back and just lose myself in a great book.

I truly hated it when I had to sell that house. I played Ryan Adams "This House Is Not For Sale" all of the way to the closing and all of the way home. Over and over again.

Hated the woman that bought my house. Yukk. She wanted me to leave my baby grand piano (there was no way I was going to give that to her even thought it was a crappy piano; I found a home for it) and she even wanted me to give her Frankie as well. She said "We have this big house now. This big house needs a big dog. I will take him."

Over my god damn dead body.

We sold that house (and another 8 acres) when the housing market was still booming. Made a huge profit.

I am not all that fond of dark granite. At least for this house. My kitchen doesn't get any natural light so I want to lighten up the space with stainless steel appliances and a lighter colored granite on the kitchen island. My total counter space is limited and it wouldn't cost a whole lot more to do all of the counter tops but Keith is already nagging at me about the cost of the renovations.

I will just be happy to have one work space in the kitchen that is not a complete pain in the arse to work on or clean. I timed how long it took me to clean those damn 'rustic' tiles on the island yesterday and it was over 40 minutes. That is ridiculous.

Still can't find a contractor to paint my kitchen cabinets. I know these cabinets were not cheap but they have not worn well. I can see bare wood in some places. The interior of the cabinets are great. Pull-out drawers for pots and pans and other space saving and user friendly features. They just need paint and new hardware.

I am the kind of person that will work on a house until I don't have anything else to work on. Then I will sell. Thankfully or regretfully, this damn house provides me with so many projects that I may never finish it.

Keith told me tonight that none of the floors are level. I told him I knew that and what would you expect in a house that was over 70 years old. I had to place the cabinet for my piano music in a place where the drawers would not just fall open. Also said that you could build a brand new house and it would never be completely square or level either. That just does not exist.

The housing market is odd. They say that most people fall in love with a house and decide to purchase it within the first 5 minutes of entering it. That was the case for me with this house.

They also say that landscaping is often more important than the interior of a home. I fell in love with this house because it has a double lot, huge mature trees and I can see the river from by backyard.

Should have worked in real estate but I would be dying right now in this market.

  



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that must have been a very special phonecall from your mum. Nursing homes are not the best places to keep all your marbles in place, from my experience.

Seeing jeroens mum slowly fade away in the mental hospital is a hard thing. The hardest part is that sometimes she realises that she is psyco and she wants to leave there right away, and accuses us of locking her up (which is true) I do hope i never get in that state...



It was a special phone call from my mother. Just the fact that I knew she was with the program (and laughing at my tales) meant a lot to me. The "I love you." was a bonus.

I am not sure if there is too much difference between a mental hospital and a nursing home. A good portion of the patients in the nursing home seem to be rather nuts.

It must have been very hard for your husband (and you) to watch his mother fade away. I don't know what her psych issues are but I know that no one wants to be confined even if it is the best thing for them.

Amen for not ever wanting to wind up like that. I can't see the point of existing here when you are no longer useful or productive. You should have a purpose.

It's been a true struggle for me to find a purpose for myself in the last 8 months or so. Chronic pain sucks the life out of you. It is just wearing and wearing.

I was greatly cheered by a 10 year old boy. His mother had phoned me and asked me if I wanted to talk to him. I told her "Uh, I am pretty down tonight. I don't think I want to inflict that on him." She put him on the phone anyways.

Such a sweet, sweet boy. I didn't have a lot to say and attempted to end the conversation early saying "Well, I know you have to go to bed now. Put your mom back on the phone." He said "No, I don't have to go to bed and I am not finished talking to you yet. I heard my mom say something about 'fibromyalgia'. Tell me more about that."

He told me I should "Yell" at my nerves because that might make me feel better. He said "try to do things even if you think you can't." He had me laughing in a short period of time and we wound up chatting about one of our favorite subjects. Our equal disgust for GWB and Dick Cheney.

He is such an awesome kid. So intelligent, so creative and he genuinely cares about other people. I don't think I have ever met anyone like him before. Honestly, how many kids are there at that age that would genuinely have that much compassion for someone that really should not be on their radar?

The sky is the limit for that kid.



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